Earlier today I was thinking about my tendency to want to fix things for those I love (my family and friends) and realized that I was doing them a disservice.
It occurred to me that I can still care about them and the events in their lives, but I don't need to carry their worries or concerns. I've got to back off, and respect that we each have the ability to deal with whatever life serves up.
We are each responsible for our own 'stuff'.
Rather than swooping in and offering up my opinion, I will listen more and do my best to wait until it's been asked for. Of course I will continue to care for those close to me, and if they ask, jump to their side and help in what ever way I can. That will not change.
I can still care without carrying.
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